There is much debate about this topic in the literature. One of the reasons this is important to people is that some women struggle to find their own g-spot and get orgasms while stimulating the g-spot. To answer this question, we need to look at two things-Physiology of the vagina and the differences in what creates orgasm for women.
To start with the physiology, the g-spot can be found about 2 inches inside the vagina at the front wall. It is soft tissue located close to the prostate. For women who do experience g-spot orgasms, inserting two fingers and using the come hither motion towards the front wall can help to create an orgasm in some women.
However, not all women report that they experience g-spot orgasms. Some women state that stimulation in this area makes them feel like they need to pee. This is because the area is closely located to the bladder. Other women and men complain that despite numerous attempts to stimulate this area, they do not experience orgasm.
Many women cannot achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation. If you have struggled to experience orgasm with the g-spot, it is best to use techniques that focus on the clitoris. In fact, recent research has suggested that the g-spot may just be an extension of the clitoris, as the clitoris extends well beyond the small tip that can be seen by the naked eye.
In order to get an orgasm, don't focus too much on what other people say should work. Explore your own body initially, and find out which touches cause a response. Every woman is different in what works for her. Create a setting that makes you feel comfortable and erotic. Take time to fantasize and work together with your partner to create an excellent sexual experience. What is most important is to find out what works for you and be fully present in the moment.
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